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		<title>Comment on 10 Myths Debunked! by It&#8217;s A God Thing &#171; Building Up Moms</title>
		<link>http://buildingupmoms.wordpress.com/2008/06/27/10-myths-debunked/#comment-566</link>
		<dc:creator>It&#8217;s A God Thing &#171; Building Up Moms</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Oct 2009 12:45:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] First of all, let me tell you that I do not do it alone. At this point in my life, I have older children who are able to help out. And before I had these older helpers? I was younger!  But seriously, I do not do it all. See 10 Myths Debunked. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] First of all, let me tell you that I do not do it alone. At this point in my life, I have older children who are able to help out. And before I had these older helpers? I was younger!  But seriously, I do not do it all. See 10 Myths Debunked. [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Homeschooling Intro by potential home schooling &#171; Mummyregina&#39;s Blog</title>
		<link>http://buildingupmoms.wordpress.com/2008/02/10/homeschooling-intro/#comment-563</link>
		<dc:creator>potential home schooling &#171; Mummyregina&#39;s Blog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2009 08:10:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Dealing with Discontentment by MustardSeedMum</title>
		<link>http://buildingupmoms.wordpress.com/2009/10/09/dealing-with-discontentment/#comment-560</link>
		<dc:creator>MustardSeedMum</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Oct 2009 17:11:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You have brought up very good points.

I know one of the things I struggle with is this notion of &quot;me time&quot;.  It is thought of as a right, especially for us sahms.  But like you said, when we think we have a right, and we don&#039;t get it, it leads to discontentment.  

It doesn&#039;t help that this thinking is so pervasive, even in Christian circles, and there&#039;s always people who will throw you the pity party and say - Oh! You NEED a break! You have SO many children, and they&#039;re ALWAYS with you.  You POOR THING!  You need some time away from the children!

I am not saying that us mums don&#039;t deserve a break.  I&#039;m just saying that if I &quot;expect&quot; it as a right, then I will be grumpy if I don&#039;t get that break. 

Teri Maxwell of Titus2.com has a mom&#039;s corner on this &quot;Me Time&quot; - where she explains it a lot clearer.  It has helped me tremendously.  I still have a long ways to go in terms of contentment, by God&#039;s grace I&#039;ll prayerfully reach a point where it&#039;ll be a lot easier not to get sucked up in a pity party :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You have brought up very good points.</p>
<p>I know one of the things I struggle with is this notion of &#8220;me time&#8221;.  It is thought of as a right, especially for us sahms.  But like you said, when we think we have a right, and we don&#8217;t get it, it leads to discontentment.  </p>
<p>It doesn&#8217;t help that this thinking is so pervasive, even in Christian circles, and there&#8217;s always people who will throw you the pity party and say &#8211; Oh! You NEED a break! You have SO many children, and they&#8217;re ALWAYS with you.  You POOR THING!  You need some time away from the children!</p>
<p>I am not saying that us mums don&#8217;t deserve a break.  I&#8217;m just saying that if I &#8220;expect&#8221; it as a right, then I will be grumpy if I don&#8217;t get that break. </p>
<p>Teri Maxwell of Titus2.com has a mom&#8217;s corner on this &#8220;Me Time&#8221; &#8211; where she explains it a lot clearer.  It has helped me tremendously.  I still have a long ways to go in terms of contentment, by God&#8217;s grace I&#8217;ll prayerfully reach a point where it&#8217;ll be a lot easier not to get sucked up in a pity party <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on Dealing with Discontentment by Pollyanna &#171; Building An Ark in Singapore</title>
		<link>http://buildingupmoms.wordpress.com/2009/10/09/dealing-with-discontentment/#comment-559</link>
		<dc:creator>Pollyanna &#171; Building An Ark in Singapore</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Oct 2009 10:21:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] one to focus on what one has, not what one doesn&#8217;t have which could easily lead to discontentment. It is even biblical as we are told to: Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, in everything give [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] one to focus on what one has, not what one doesn&#8217;t have which could easily lead to discontentment. It is even biblical as we are told to: Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, in everything give [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Teaching Our Children to Read by serene</title>
		<link>http://buildingupmoms.wordpress.com/2009/08/29/teaching-our-children-to-read/#comment-550</link>
		<dc:creator>serene</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Sep 2009 12:15:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t have any recommendations. Anything would do. At that age, they&#039;re more interested in colouful pictures than the storyline :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t have any recommendations. Anything would do. At that age, they&#8217;re more interested in colouful pictures than the storyline <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on Teaching Our Children to Read by stephanie</title>
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		<dc:creator>stephanie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2009 04:57:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>what books would you recommend reading to an infant under one year old?</description>
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		<title>Comment on Birth Story #4 by Shirley</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shirley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Aug 2009 05:53:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you so much for the encouragement. I&#039;m expecting a twin and into my 33wks. I have been praying for a supernatural delivery cos i do not wish to go for c-section as most delivery of twins do.  I was diagnosed with positive GBS at 32weeks and initially was quite upset but nevertheless just have to trust God &amp; believe His protection on the babies. For God timing is always perfect. Amen!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you so much for the encouragement. I&#8217;m expecting a twin and into my 33wks. I have been praying for a supernatural delivery cos i do not wish to go for c-section as most delivery of twins do.  I was diagnosed with positive GBS at 32weeks and initially was quite upset but nevertheless just have to trust God &amp; believe His protection on the babies. For God timing is always perfect. Amen!</p>
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		<title>Comment on My DIY Planner by Homeschool Planning &#171; Building Up Moms</title>
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		<dc:creator>Homeschool Planning &#171; Building Up Moms</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Jul 2009 12:57:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...]        &#8592; My DIY&#160;Planner Is Your Home A Place of&#160;Sanctuary? [...]</description>
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		<title>Comment on WHEN do you start homeschooling? by Bringing School Home : mums-a-musing.com</title>
		<link>http://buildingupmoms.wordpress.com/2008/02/10/when-do-you-start-homeschooling/#comment-532</link>
		<dc:creator>Bringing School Home : mums-a-musing.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Jul 2009 08:36:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] extremely easy to navigate, and she tries to address a newbie&#8217;s typical concerns like when to start homeschooling or what to teach your toddler or [...]</description>
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		<title>Comment on Time To De-Clutter Again! by Dust Attack! &#171; Building An Ark in Singapore</title>
		<link>http://buildingupmoms.wordpress.com/2008/02/08/time-to-de-clutter-again/#comment-529</link>
		<dc:creator>Dust Attack! &#171; Building An Ark in Singapore</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 07:49:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...]   Published July 9, 2009   General , Home Management Leave a&#160;Comment       Everytime I declutter stuff, I get attacked by dust  It is such a miserable feeling that I am almost tempted to never [...]</description>
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